Friday, October 20, 2006

Naysayers are everywhere!

My sister recently posted on her blog about Naysayers... "Nasayers are those who are constantly telling you "Oh things are great for you now BUT just wait until ....." and she went on to describe the people who always said-- your marriage may be great for now, but wait until the bills come in, you start having kids, just give it a few more years, things will change.

I don't know why, but I have been thinking about this over and over for the past several days. Maybe it's because I am a newlywed and I have those type of people in my life as well. Matt and I really do have such a wonderfuly fun marriage. We laugh every night before going to sleep and have never gone to sleep mad at each other. We text each other during the middle of the day just to say I love you and I love you more. My friends at work call it sappy, and say... just wait.

My parents are divorced (what an amazing transition!). I'm not traumatized or anything-- it happend when I was younger, and both have remarried amazing people. But neither of them really laugh a lot with each other. Though Tracy and Lee do. All three of these marriages are different, but Tracy's and Lee's is really the one that I think parallels us the most...laughter is so important I believe... thanks for laughing!

1 comment:

Tracy C. said...

yep, laugh or die!